They can do both , because we already do both. It's not that hard. They just REFUSE to nurture. That's the problem. Women step up and do both and men won't. Period.
I completely agree. I suspect it's because we don't live near our core families anymore. So what we used to get from our sisters, mothers, aunts, cousins and girlfriends we've known our whole lives, we now think we have to get from the only family we do live near, our husbands. Because, let's be honest, how many girlfriends do we have in our lives, at this point, who we can go to for that type of support who know us deeply enough to give us what we need?
They can do both , because we already do both. It's not that hard. They just REFUSE to nurture. That's the problem. Women step up and do both and men won't. Period.
I completely agree. I suspect it's because we don't live near our core families anymore. So what we used to get from our sisters, mothers, aunts, cousins and girlfriends we've known our whole lives, we now think we have to get from the only family we do live near, our husbands. Because, let's be honest, how many girlfriends do we have in our lives, at this point, who we can go to for that type of support who know us deeply enough to give us what we need?